In His Own Words
About Him
Just wanted to check in with you and hopefully we can find the way to complete each other. I'm very busy with work and not great with life balance....but I really want to find my lid…
Ek het die afgelope 9+ jaar gefokus op die enkel pa ding en werk. My werk het dan meeste van my fokus en tyd gekry Ek sal nou nie verklaar dat ek uitblink met my lewensbalans nie…eintlik heeltemal die teenoorgestelde!
Ek glo die Here sal die regte persoon oor my pad bring....OP die REGTE tyd....want ek het maar my eie uitdagings en dinge (en nie balans nie).
Die binne-mooi is vir my belangriker as buite 'mooi'….WANT…wanneer ons oud raak en Newton in skop…by MY en jou (Wat natuurlik NOOIT sal gebeur nie :-)….moet ons nogsteeds verlief wees…vir mekaar mooi wees…en beste pelle wees…!
Ek kan nie dans om my lewe te red nie! Maar ek kan projekte, Excel, Outlook soos min..
Roadtrips….net ons self wees…niks fake…nie daar om mekaar te impress…maar om ons self te wees...dit is waarna ek soek..indien ons ontmoet gaan ek seker plakkies, shorts en t-shirt aantrek...met geen grimering nie... ;-)
Ek gaan seker nie opspring en ontmoet vir n date nie…want ek moet die sosiale gewoontes weer aanleer…klink vreeslik dramaties…maar ek het onlangs met een van my tieners se OT geleer…jy het n emmer….en jy moet besef wat die emmer volmaak en jou uitput…en besef wat ook die emmer kan leegmaak en jou recharge…..in my beskeie opinie…is my emmer van met mense wees baie vol…want ek werk die heeltyd met hulle…so ek moet my emmer leeg kry…voor ons twee ontmoet…
Iemand wie my veilige hawe kan wees...
So…sien jy kans vir die skip wat besig is om stadig te draai (veronderstel is)…mekaar te leer ken…en van daar af te vat…
My kinders is in Gr 11 en die ander het begin studeer...FYI :-)...
About His Ideal Match
Hopefully someone that is looking for the same....find happiness and love.... enjoy chatting and hopefully be the answer to each other and for each other.....
Ek Glo die regte persoon is daar buite vir my....my beste vriend...iemand wat geduld gaan he met my en my social spiere wat nie bestaan nie...
Ek wil jou ontmoet vir die regte redes...en tyd saam spandeer vir dieselfde... ek's nie perfek nie maar ek glo ek kan vir jou die beste plek en weergawe van my lewe wees en gee...
Hopelik het jy bietjie geduld...met my en my perssonlike groei wat ek moet doen om wer myself effens te vind...
Iemand vir wie ek n veilige hawe kan wees...
Iemand wat die lewe met tye ernstig kan opneem...en ander tye sommer net verspot kan wees...wat weet wat om ernstig op te neem en wat nie...
Iemand saam met ek en sy kan 'wees'...met mekaar...vir mekaar...saam met mekaar...
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Northern Suburbs, Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
49 | |
Star Sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
179cm (5' 10.5") | |
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Western Cape, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
37 - 57 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
150cm (4' 11.1") - 208cm (6' 9.9") | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Slightly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Kosher | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short; Medium; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I have a full beard |
Body Hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Outspoken; Quiet; Realistic; Shy; Silly; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Celibacy; Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Gospel / Religious; Rock |
Reading: |
It's just OK |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Business; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Religious; Sci-Fi; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Dramas; Movie Channels; Sci-Fi |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War |
Interests: |
Board games; Business news; Card games; Computer & video games; Surfing the Internet |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Camping; Chess; Cricket; Hiking; Pool; Rugby; Swimming; Walking |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fast food; Italian; Pub Grub; South African; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Hectic |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Watching TV or a movie |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother |
Family Closeness: |
We're dysfunctional |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
Not at all |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Cat(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Work Aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using Thunderbolt City South Africa: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Embarrassed; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |