In His Own Words
About Him
I'm independent, headstrong and passionate. Am young at heart, passionate about life (sport and nature) I am emotionally intelligent, have a wide variety of interests - comfortable and content within myself, and take good care of myself. Well-read (but not as well as I'd like to be) and curious about the world. I love my people but not people in general. Crowds are not my thing. My coping mechanism is laughter, and I have been told I have a good sense of humour.
I was widowed some time ago. Hard as it was and is, life is forcing me to reinvent myself. I was, and still am, challenged daily to rediscover who I am when I am not part of couple. It's not an easy road, but it is interesting.
I'm ridiculously busy between a demanding job, being a single parent to 1 child, and a grounddaughter also studying in between. I'm not looking for a serious relationship, or for someone to be a caretaker mum for my kids. I'm not looking for hookups either. What I'm looking for is friendship, maybe an activity partner, and if there is a spark and an emotional connection, the possibility of benefits then we take it deeper to the next level which is getting Married
About His Ideal Match
I am looking for someone with an ongoing passion for life and a lively spirit. A person who is willing to travel with me and discover the world, nurture a love for animals, and appreciate important human relationships with a humble lifestyle. My partner should also be the person who can take the lead and I will follow. Cleanliness is also very important to me and in difficult times I have to be able to rely on his support. She must also have a love for music and also love to dance and be honest and sincere at all times,Someone who makes me laugh.Someone who isn't easily intimidated.Nobody too needy.Someone with diverse interests who is curious.Kindness and tolerance go a long way.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
Brazil | |
Location: |
East London, Eastern Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
57 | |
Star Sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
197cm (6' 5.6") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Portuguese | |
Other Languages: |
English; German; Polish | |
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Labour / Construction | |
Income: |
Fat cat |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Eastern Cape, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
40 - 69 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
147cm (4' 9.9") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds; Large; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Average; Below Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Indian; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Chinese; English; Russian | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Hindu; Muslim; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox; Sikh | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; Partnered; It's Complicated | ||
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan; Kosher; Halaal | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Regular; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Haven't completed high / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
On Welfare/Benefits; Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
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