In His Own Words
About Him
I'm a mild-mannered, witty and friendly heterosexual male. I tend to be quiet and reserved upon the first acquaintance, but then open up with time. I quite like camping and hiking occasionally. Other interests include reading, watching football on telly, playing video games, staying in and binge-watching murder mystery shows, movie and series.
As I've been delving further into my 40s, I've tended to enjoy most weekends staying in, rather than going out, more so into the night life particularly... though I will still go out occasionally for special events or invitations. I'm really not one for casual/meaningless encounters or transactional trysts, so if you're actually looking for a blesser or sugar daddy, good luck and please continue looking elsewhere my sister.
Now, if the above-mentioned resonates with your values, don't be scared to say "Hi". I promise, I won't bite.
About His Ideal Match
She's funny, sexy, considerate and level-headed. A lady in the streets but a freak in the bed 😅
Someone who will get me and find my jokes humorous. A woman of substantive emotional intelligence, who understands that no one is perfect. She knows what a real partnership entails. She need not be drop-dead gorgeous, however she should take pride in her personal hygiene, cleanliness and overall dress sense. Good, stimulating conversations and overall poised sensible communication is a turn-on for me.
While its not fair nor realistic to expect us to have 100% compatibility, still there should be some shared interests, this is important for a healthy relationship.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Bloemfontein, Free State, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
45 | |
Star Sign: |
Sagittarius | |
Height: |
167cm (5' 5.7") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
None (Bald) | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
Sepedi | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; English; Sesotho; Tswana; Zulu | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Open to possibilities; Short-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Technical Diploma | |
Occupation: |
Technical / Science / Engineering | |
Income: |
Solvent |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Free State, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
21 - 46 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 186cm (6' 1.2") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Slightly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Black/African; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; It's Complicated | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No; Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Disappearing |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I have a full beard |
Body Hair: |
Hairy |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Sophisticated |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Quiet; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for drinks |
Music Preferences: |
Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; World |
Reading: |
It's just OK |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; History; Non-fiction; Science / Technology |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Motoring; Nature / Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Sci-Fi; War |
Interests: |
Board games; Computer & video games; Cooking; Gardening; Reading |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Athletics; Basketball; Motorsport; Rugby; Soccer |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Fast food; South African; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Watching TV or a movie |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like them at the zoo |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Showing affection in public; Sarcasm; Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
Get promoted |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
House in the suburbs |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using Thunderbolt City South Africa: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
