In His Own Words
About Him
I've read many "get to know me" narratives from other users.
They are all about what I'm like and love to do, what I don't like and don't like to do.
Experience has taught me that at times opposites attract and at times common traits attract. It is all about exploring and connecting. Trust me, if you connect with someone all the likes and don't likes go out the window, at least initially. From there the two souls form each other and shape each other to become a single new one.
Whilst people have likes and dislikes, preferences and pet peeves ultimately what bonds us together is love. Love is not an emotion but a commitment to make each other happy.
I'm 42 so there is a lot of history in my life - I mean who at 42 doesn't have a history (not baggage though). I'm simply looking for companionship or a meaningful connection that may blossom into a relationship over time. It all starts with a conversation though and maybe a informal date of sorts.
About His Ideal Match
I can go on and on about what I want and like and what I don't want and don't like based on past experiences but as my own narratives says, unlikely matches can connect in such a way that they may be bonded for life.
I value commitment to the end, not at the cost of something but at the prospect of the awesome bond that may lay ahead.
Perhaps the one thing that I do value the most is your ability to speak your mind when something bugs you. I'm not a mind reader after all.
What His Friends Say
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Kempton Park, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
45 | |
Star Sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
186cm (6' 1.2") | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Technical / Science / Engineering | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Gauteng, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
32 - 44 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian; Other | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; It's Complicated | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
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- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
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