In His Own Words
About Him
The way that I see myself is of course, somewhat subjective. If we get to meet, you will be able to judge for yourself. I will do the same for you - hehe. The bottom line is CHEMISTRY!
In a nut shell, I am a very young-at-heart, reasonably fit, active, healthy, honest, open-minded, down-to-earth, positive, non-judgmental, romantic/sensual, loyal, sensitive, non-religious, financially independent working guy looking for the right mate. I am definitely a one-woman-only guy. Giving and receiving affection and sensuality are important to me if there is genuine mutual attraction.
Some of the interests that I enjoy are walking, hiking, camping, visiting game reserves, visiting interesting areas in our beautiful country on the coast, inland and in the mountains; mountain-biking, kayaking; reading - I like books by John Grisham but also non-fiction like The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle; dining out and dining in; wine - and knowing more about wine; movies at a theatre or at home and TV channels like America's Got Talent and The Voice, Dynamo the magician - my interests are varied.
I enjoy spending time with my family but now that I live in Knysna, the same opportunities that I had in Johannesburg are no longer there.
I work from home in the administrative, tax and accounting fields. Luckily I am able to work anywhere, as long as there is an internet and cell phone connection, so I can work and play in most places.
About His Ideal Match
Ideally I would like to meet a woman who is at least reasonably active, who enjoys some similar interests, who can be assertive without being controlling and above all, is honest and trustworthy, with a positive outlook on life. A woman who knows how rewarding it is to be kind, loving, lovable and sensual, who values a partner she can trust and who will be supportive of her, a partner who will bring out the best in her by not being judgemental and who it will be easy to be with and have fun with. A woman who enjoys precious time spent with family.
The ability to give and take is very important and being able to give space to the other is also very important.
Being a bit quirky can also be good :)
Some deal-breakers are pretty obvious and likely to be mutual: actually not ready to be on a dating site, looking for a financial saviour, baggage that is still significant, the need to control, obsessive (as in freaky) tidiness and cleanliness, acting without respect, being racist, anger management issues, significant anxiety and depression issues, low/no libido, dishonesty (also including dating photos and age), couch potato.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Knysna, Western Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
79 | |
Star Sign: |
Sagittarius | |
Height: |
180cm (5' 10.9") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Grey | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Garden Route (Western Cape, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
61 - 73 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
151cm (4' 11.4") - 178cm (5' 10.1") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short; Disappearing |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Smooth |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Outgoing; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Folk; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; New Age; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rock |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Business; Crime; Fiction; Mystery; Non-fiction; Science / Technology; Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Game shows; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Reality shows; Sport; Variety shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Art Films; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Westerns |
Interests: |
Board games; Business news; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Meditation; Photography; Reading; Shopping; Surfing the Internet; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Birdwatching; Bodyboarding; Camping; Canoeing; Cricket; Cycling; Golf; Hiking; Mountain biking; Rugby; Sailing; Scuba diving; Snorkeling; Soccer; Surf skiing/kayaking; Surfing; Swimming; Tennis; Walking |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fast food; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s) |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using Thunderbolt City South Africa: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |