In His Own Words
About Him
Because I value friendship.............................I would like to enjoy the finer things in life with a partner that does not want to change me. I am a human being so there fore I can be moody and grumpy with the inbred ego problem that all males do present.
I am an animal, arts, culture and nature lover and a passionate South-African.
My passions are ranging from ballet, opera to the 2nd World War, camping, the outdoors, bush, theatre, rugby, dogs, snakes, collecting Royal Dalton, old furniture, art and books. Extreme sports like shark cage diving and sledge-running are a definite.
I believe in the total person and not in sections, and accept anybody that is true to her and me.
I believe in fun, adventure and the basis of humour as the essence of mankind. I believe in laughter. Wouldn't live be dark and dreary without laughing.
I believe in experiencing life in all dimensions, to travel, going to auctions and surprising my partner with flowers and dining out. I cannot promise heaven and earth but do know I'm someone who has a great capacity for love and affection and I'm definitely a one-woman man. I am a man who has reached a point in my life where I am tired of playing games and bored of meaningless encounters. I am looking for something special, something different, and something that comes once in a lifetime, a love that is exciting and scary at the same time.
Patience and understanding are virtues of mine.
I am content with life and leading a comfortable and self-sustained life with all the necessary existential trappings, but I am in need of an independent, , intelligent, mature friend that shares my believes and wants= A PARTNER.
About His Ideal Match
DO YOU LOVE THE ARTS, BUSH / NATURE AND CULTURE SCENE?
Are you spontaneous? Can you talk about your emotions and feelings without SUPRESSING it? Will you be able to tell me what do YOU want as a lover and friend without hiding it? Can you be honest about your emotions? Somebody that believes in herself and her partner and base her relationship on communication, respect, acceptance and most of all TRUST. Passion and romance are a must. Patience and acceptance of your partner with his good and bad points; would be a bonus. An independent, [I DO NOT want a friend that is a robot] person that loves to be spoiled and be treated with old age manners, sincerity and kindness, but not smothered! Weird I know!
Are you classy and stylish but with an arty/sporty and unique individual streak? Somebody that would like to take bubble and candlelight baths, is passionate about animals, would be excited at art auctions, will watch ballet and run the next night on a beach in Mozambique, somebody that will watch rugby with me, cry with me, laugh with me. A person that believes in the magic of touch and the awesome feeling of closeness in sleeping spoon and holding hands whilst sleeping or falling asleep.
DO YOU BELIEVE IN HONESTY?
Would you like to travel to the Serengeti, Zanzibar and the Okavango?
Are you a Kerkorrel, Stones, Sting, Collins, U2, Beatles and Theuns Jordaan fan?
Do you prefer intelligent conversation, candlelight and red wine?
Do you love sport? PLEASE
Do you love nature, the arts, and theatre and poetry evenings with friends?
Would you be able to run in the bush and get exited about wildflowers, butterflies, birds and go to the State Theatre the next night? Can you get passionate about a sunset? Will you be able to talk hours about that illusive photograph?
DO YOU WANT TO BE TREATED LIKE AN INDEPENDENT, INTELLIGENT INDIVIDUAL?
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
59 | |
Star Sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
171cm (5' 7.3") | |
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Namibia; South Africa; Zimbabwe | ||
Location: |
Mpumalanga; Gauteng; North-West, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
25 - 55 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 171cm (5' 7.3") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Below Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial; Artistic / Musical / Writer; Executive / Management; Finance; Food Services; Labour / Construction; Legal; Medical / Dental; Sales and Marketing; Self-employed; Student; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering; Transportation; Agriculture; Health / Social Care | ||
Income: |
Struggling; Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I have a goatee |
Body Hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Honesty; Humour; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Green |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Jazz; Opera; Rock |
Reading: |
There's nothing better |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Business; Non-fiction |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Documentaries; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Art Films; Documentary; Drama; Romance; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Board games; Business news; Gardening; Healthy living; Photography; Writing poetry |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Camping; Chess; Scuba diving |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Fine Dining; Seafood |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out 7 days a week |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Visiting a museum or gallery |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
My friends are my main family |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
Not at all |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Cat(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Thrill seeking |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Power; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Wealth |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream Home: |
Tent in the woods |
Politics: |
Conservative |
Retirement Plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using Thunderbolt City South Africa: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Very |