In His Own Words
About Him
I'm a friendly and loyal person—what you see is what you get. I believe in honesty, sometimes a little too much! I don’t sugarcoat things just to fit in, but at least you’ll always know where you stand with me. Tactfulness is a work in progress, but hey, life’s too short for BS.
Afrikaans is my first language, but I’m equally comfortable in English. I love to laugh, have deep conversations, and sometimes just be silly—because honestly, life is challenging enough without taking everything seriously 24/7. That said, when it’s time to be serious, I can be very focused.
Degrees? No, I don’t have one, but I can hold a conversation with anyone, from everyday people to CEOs and even presidents. Intelligence isn’t just about qualifications—it’s about how you apply it.
I’ve built everything I have through hard work—no trust fund, no handouts. I believe in earning my way in life. I work in the tech industry, for myself, which means long hours and even the occasional all-nighter. But the upside? My office is at home, and I manage my own time. I do travel occasionally, and moving to Krugersdorp is part of expanding my opportunities.
I don’t have kids (yet) but absolutely love them. The right time and person matter.
My dog, Duchess, is my sidekick in life. She’s always around, and while her shedding is a challenge, my robot vacuum “Gogga” helps keep things in check. If you love animals, we’ll get along just fine.
Not here because I’m lonely—I’m very happy on my own. But meaningful connections matter, and a good conversation beats talking to my dog (she only wags her tail in response).
Faith is important to me, and I try to attend church once a week. It would be great if we share similar values, but I respect everyone’s journey.
Currently in the process of moving to Krugersdorp, so I might be a little quiet for now—feel free to drop me a message or add me as a favorite, and I’ll get back to you once I’m settled!
About His Ideal Match
I appreciate a good heart and a great sense of humor—because if we can laugh together, we’re already off to a good start.
I’m looking for a companion, a best friend, and a partner in every sense. Someone who is open, kind, and understands that relationships are built on trust and mutual respect.
Trust is key—I have nothing to hide, and you’re welcome to check my phone anytime. But I also believe in personal space. If you constantly feel the need to monitor me, then trust isn’t really there, and that’s not the kind of relationship I want.
Age is just a number, and looks fade with time. What matters is how you take care of yourself and the kind of person you are inside.
I like a tidy space but absolutely hate washing dishes—fair warning! That said, I’ll always do my part around the house and pull my weight where I can.
I avoid unnecessary conflict and prefer a peaceful, understanding dynamic. If you thrive on drama, we’re probably not a good match.
Money is always a tricky subject, so let’s keep it simple: I’ve worked hard for everything I have, and I’m not looking to be someone’s financial safety net. I help where I can, when I choose to, but kindness should never be taken for granted.
One thing you can count on—I’ll always have your back, in the good times and the tough ones.
I appreciate open-mindedness, warmth, and a caring nature. At the end of the day, I want what you want—to be each other’s everything.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Krugersdorp, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
44 | |
Star Sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
189cm (6' 2.4") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Regular | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
High / secondary school | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Gauteng, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
20 - 49 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Other | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me | ||
Want Children: |
Yes; No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Regular; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial; Executive / Management; Finance; Legal; Medical / Dental; Sales and Marketing; Self-employed; Teacher / Professor; Other; Political; Health / Social Care | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Instrumental; Pop / Top 40 |
Reading: |
It's just OK |
Books: |
Religious |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Sci-Fi |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Business news; Computer programming; Investing; Surfing the Internet |
Sport Involvement: |
Bored to death |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out 7 days a week |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I DO have a bed in my office! |
Pastimes of choice: |
Playing with my pet |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
Not at all |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using Thunderbolt City South Africa: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |