In Her Own Words
About Her
Imagine finding a person and connecting with on a deeper level and saying.. WOW.. I'm so happy to have you in my life, that is why you should get to know me😉
I'm straight forward, know what I want, extremely witty and have a playful personality, I'm a workaholic.. terrible I know, but I'm single so I can be, I live under a rock(secretly taking over the world) Unfortunately I dont have alot of time to myself, which means I don't like to waste my time or yours with meaningless conversations. If I take time out of my day to chat to you and get to know you, take it as a hint that I like you. I absolutely love intellectual conversations, I love to hear your life story about your past, travels, hobbies what makes you happy and content, and everything in-between. I am not the judgemental type, we all have done things in life that we not proud of, as long as we learn and moving in a positive direction. Oh and yes.. i do tend to try and look on the bright side.(remember the keyword there is 'try') lol. Some people would say that I'm boring that I watch alot of documentaries, podcasts and yes.. even the news(to be fair it's cheaper than a comedy ticket) My intentions are good, I'm extremely private in my personally life, yes I have social media but I don't post on social media, work purposes only.. it's my whole persona of living under a rock. I am an independent person, I would rather be single than be with the wrong person, with that said I do believe that it is a man's position is to be the one in charge, take the lead with decisions, I like my man wearing the pants! I will always support your goals and dreams, cheering you on. I had my child young, I'm not looking for a replacement parent, just someone that will treat him right and has good morals. I will never expect anything from you financially or expect you to look after him.
I know i havent described myself that well, maybe i will update a little later. If you feel that you would like to chat and get to know each other, send me a message 🙂
About Her Ideal Match
I do tend to prefer mature older men, I am an old soul. Again intellectual conversations is a huge plus, being able to adapt in any situation let it be walking on the beach, picnic outside, going for dinner or attending events, going to art shows, live performances. Or being couch potatoes. I am not a clingy person but extremely lovable towards my partner, when I care about you will always know and I would want someone that returns the same affection. It's hard to describe someone as each person is unique, I might update this once I get an idea what out there on the platform 😅
*Update* men will be men.. not interested in a 'fun casual time'. I'm looking for someone to form a genuine connection with. Unfortunately its very hard for me to open up to people and sometimes I will go MIA. Not intentional but now you know one of my red flags🙈😅
What Her Friends Say
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
East London, Eastern Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
33 | |
Star Sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
163cm (5' 4.2") | |
Body Type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Western Cape; Gauteng, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
34 - 58 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
165cm (5' 5.0") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outspoken; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Self-control |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; Opera; Pop / Top 40; Rock |
Reading: |
It's just OK |
Books: |
Business; Crime; History; Science / Technology; Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; News |
Movie Frequency: |
Never |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Documentary; Drama; Mystery |
Interests: |
Business news; Investing; Shopping; Surfing the Internet |
Sport Involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Indian; Italian; Seafood; Sushi |
Pace of Life: |
Hectic |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I'm an only child |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like them at the zoo |
Work Aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using Thunderbolt City South Africa: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
