In Her Own Words
About Her
Before reading my profile:
I prefer to meet instead of endless e mails or messages. So.much time gets wasted writing and often you meet the person, or me, and its like chalk and cheese.
I am a secure, grounded, intelligent woman. Yes, strong willed but also compassionate and a kind human being.
I have a demanding full time job and also a business keeping me quite busy. I work hard and started my own businesses because I believe there is no such thing that a man must look after me, and for that reason extremely independent.
I live quite a fast pace life. I travel on a regular basis between North West and KZN therefor not permanently stationed in NW.
I make an effort to switch off. KNP is one of THE places in SA closest to my heart. Nature, ocean high on the list. Gardening, restoration of my antique house part of shutting off from work.
I enjoy cooking, having a good wine, whiskey and bourbon lover (occasionally).
I enjoy dressing up but in the same breath no issue to be a plain Jane ( so to speak).
Fully bilingual. English/Afrikaans
I do not " need" someone in my life but if there is another soul out there that compliments my life...what more can a girl ask for.
PS - I don't do selfies but seeing that we all wonder if pics are true. Black Dress evening , photos on the 8th May 2025
About Her Ideal Match
I do not believe in an ideal match...its a connection, chemistry, magic that no one can explain...one can write pages re an ideal match...its a moment in time when you look at someone and the moment happens...
I can however say this. I really struggle when I have someone in.my life and there is not intelligent conversations or plain chit chat. Understanding each other humor is very important. Laziness does not work for me and if you are looking for someone that is at your beck and call - i am not the one. Selfishness is a big no no.
I see a relationship/friendship as a 50/50 partnership. After all, you can also make tea and wash the dishes (ha ha)
Would love to meet someone that wants to experience and share new experiences, that can go and do things on the spur of the moment.
But hey, I am getting carried away..
Chemistry is first needed before anything...
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Potchefstroom, North-West, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
59 | |
Star Sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
168cm (5' 6.1") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Ask me later | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; English | |
Religion: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Ask me later | |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
55 - 70 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
175cm (5' 8.9") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Funny; Intelligent; Moody; Optimistic; Outspoken |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Faithfulness; Humility; Kindness; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite Colour: |
Purple |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Jazz; Latin; World |
Reading: |
It's just OK |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Knitting; Painting; Photography; Shopping |
Sports: |
Birdwatching; Golf; Walking |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter; Fast food; Italian; Pub Grub; Seafood |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Pastimes of choice: |
Gardening |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're dysfunctional |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
Backpacking around the globe |
Feelings about using Thunderbolt City South Africa: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Very |