In Her Own Words
About Her
I am vivacious outgoing woman who makes friends easily. I have a slightly twisted sense of humor and love hearing and sharing jokes.
I love being around people and can get along with almost anyone.
I enjoy social get togethers, but prefer to keep them closer to home rather in an impersonal setting.
Between my 2 children and work, I don't get a lot of 'down time', but when spending time alone, i enjoy reading, music and writing my own poetry. I watch very little TV or movies.
My outlook on life is that you can't control what happens to you, but you can control the way you react to those things.
About Her Ideal Match
I am looking for a gentle yet confident man with an even temperament.
Because i enjoy being around people, my match would too need to enjoy the social aspect of me - be able to stand his own in conversations and get along with a wide variety of people and age groups.
I like quality time together and I like having my funny bone tickled and being intellectually stimulated.
My deal breaker in a relationship is non communication and cheating / violence in ANY form.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
White River, Mpumalanga, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
42 | |
Star Sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
160cm (5' 3.0") | |
Body Type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Auburn | |
Eye Colour: |
Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
High / secondary school | |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Mpumalanga, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
35 - 45 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
165cm (5' 5.0") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Average; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Black | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Regular; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial; Artistic / Musical / Writer; Executive / Management; Finance; Food Services; Labour / Construction; Legal; Medical / Dental; Sales and Marketing; Self-employed; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering; Transportation; Other; Agriculture | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Average |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Kindness; Patience; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Country & Western; R&B / Soul |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Crime; Mystery |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Comedy / Sit-coms |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Comedy; Romance |
Interests: |
Cooking; Pottery; Reading; Writing poetry |
Sport Involvement: |
Bored to death |
Sports: |
Pool; Walking |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Seafood; South African; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time Online: |
I'm online on weekdays only |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm in the middle of a divorce |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Tattoo(s) |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Erotica; Long hair; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
House in the suburbs |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
At home with a good book |
Feelings about using Thunderbolt City South Africa: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
