About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Pretoria (Pretoria East), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
43 | |
Star Sign: |
Ask me later | |
Height: |
182cm (5' 11.7") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
PhD / Post Doctoral | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Gauteng, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
28 - 45 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
152cm (4' 11.8") - 191cm (6' 3.2") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
In His Own Words
About Him
(Lees onder oor 'publieke foto')
Die lewe is alreeds die moeite werd; Met jou daarin, nog meer spesiaal. Jy wil my leer ken as jy ook glo in 'n saam-benadering en nie bv. dat die man alleen die jagter moet wees nie. Leeu wyfies kan ook jag en beskerm. Hofmakery is maar 'n voorbeeld. Nog een: Kosmaak moet gedoen word: Of dit nou ek, jy of wie-ookal is. Ons moet net nie sterf van die honger nie - dan maak ek maar kos (en jy moet maar eet).
Ek is gemaklik, het serlvertroue, passievol oor sekere goed, eerlik met my emosies, goed gebalanseerd en verhoudings-intensioneel, optimistiese-realis.
Ek's bly dat as jy hierdie lees jy darem ten minste Afrikaans magtig is. Hoe gaan jy dan andersins in Afrikaans vry ;-)
Beslis nie met almal nie maar ek is 'n aanraking mens. Die wat my egter nie goed ken nie sien daai kant nie baie nie - dalk eerder dat ek 'n intellektuele ou is. My manlike hart is nie vir almal nie. As die verhouding wederkerig is kan ek baie romanties wees. Hou verby as jy nie ook inisiatief kan neem nie.
Ek is 'n familie ou en saam met my twee 'kids' is daar verseker die moontlikheid om die sirkel groter te trek met nog bestaande kids. 'Spliternuwe' kids? Miskien.
Ek poog om 'n 'great' pa te wees en hierdie is allermins 'n ma-soek ekspidisie. Pa's kan net so goed van 'n ouer wees - 'full stop.' Ook hierin deel ons die 'amazing' voorreg van die ouerskapsreis.
Terloops, die naam 'ButterflyCatcher' het te make met skoenlappers as 'n simbool van lewe, niks meer nie.
FOTO's
Ek het nie 'n publieke foto nie, doodgewoon omdat ek voel dat as 'n leier in 'n paar gemeenskappe dit my in 'n ongemaklike posisie kan plaas. Ek merk jou as 'n 'favourite' en jy het toegang tot my fotos. As jy ook so voel dan maak ek dit by tye moontlik om te gesels. Ek sê nie elke gesprek hoef na 'n verhouding te lei nie, maar ek gaan eerder nie tyd mors as daar nie ooglopende moontlikhede is nie. Voel vry om ook so te reageer. Jammer as ek 'n great mens gemis het.
About His Ideal Match
Ek is 'n 'sucker' vir 'n mooi glimlag en sprankelende persoonlikheid. Nou ja dit is nie 'n absolute voorvereiste nie. Wie ken tog nou die geheime van die liefde.
Jy moet oor jou emosies volwasse kan praat. Hoe anders moet mens goed uitsorteer. Jy moet stylvol kan 'fight' en saam met my belangstel in hoe om dit so dit doen dan 'n verhouding nie tot niet gaan nie.
'n Ideale persoon is 'n pasmaat. Daar moet iets sexy wees maar dit is persoonlik - 'in the eye of the beholder.'
Jy is iemand wat die christelike geloofsbeskouing belangrik ag, en selfs ook inisiatief kan neem, ook bid byvoorbeeld (of dan nou ten minste nie dit net van die man verwag nie). 'n Deeltjie van my werk behels bediening (met musiek). Maar so maat moet ook verstaan dat mens se belewenis van geloof mag verskil.
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More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short; Medium |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses and contacts |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Sophisticated |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Intelligent; Optimistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Celibacy; Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Hope; Kindness; Mercy; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Country & Western; Folk; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; Pop / Top 40; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Business; Fantasy; Fiction; Mystery; Non-fiction; Religious; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Documentaries; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; Sci-Fi |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Making Music |
Sports: |
Badminton; Chess; Hiking; Mountain biking; Squash; Table Tennis; Tennis; Walking |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s); Fish |
Pets (Like): |
Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Power; Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using Thunderbolt City South Africa: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
