Treadlightly

48 – City Bowl (Unspecified Suburb), Cape Town, South Africa

treadlightly

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Online: More than 6 months ago

Modified: More than 6 months ago

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About Her

Country of Origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
City Bowl (Unspecified Suburb), Cape Town, South Africa
Gender:
Female
Age:
48
Star Sign:
Gemini
Height:
Ask me later
Body Type:
Average
Looks:
Attractive
Hair Colour:
Dark Brown
Eye Colour:
Blue
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
French
Religion:
Buddhist / Taoist
Relationship Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage
Have Children:
Yes, living with me
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Postgraduate degree
Occupation:
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income:
Enough

About Her Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Cape Town Metro (Western Cape, South Africa)
Gender:
Male
Age Range:
40 - 55
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
160cm (5' 3.0") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller
Body Type:
Any
Looks:
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Non-negotiable
Ethnicity:
Asian; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Other
Home Language:
English; French; German; Italian; Spanish
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Sikh
Relationship Status:
Single; Divorced; Widowed
Have Children:
Any
Want Children:
Maybe
Daily Diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian
Smoking:
Non-Smoker; Occasional
Drinking:
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker
Education:
Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral
Occupation:
Artistic / Musical / Writer; Executive / Management; Finance; Legal; Medical / Dental; Retired; Self-employed; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering; Other; Agriculture
Income:
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In Her Own Words

About Her

I guess I'm looking for someone to explore with journey with... and commit to. I have a wide range of interests and fairly unconventional tastes... not a pop culture slave, love art movies, good books, and beautiful interesting minds and things. Over the next few years, a balance between home life and a lot more travel is the ideal.

I can't promise to be uncomplicated, I'm a woman... Alive, able to compromise, slightly over-developed social conscience. I am sometimes too serious, but can be utterly goofy, though my humour leans to the dark side. I am pragmatic, but a dreamer. And a total sap for romance. It would be nice to have a soft, steady, stable set of arms to be wrapped in.

practical notes: there are certain realities to being a single parent, and it can be challenging to build a relationship when there is a child around. I'm not looking to be involved with someone who thinks I should be grateful that they will take a woman with a child into their lives. . . I'm financially independent, and happy with my own and my daughters company... If you are one of the many men who seem to think single mothers are easy prey (my male friends tell me all about this), kindly move on to the next profile.

I think its fairly easy to establish whether or not there's an attraction in the first few seconds of meeting. If there is, we've something to build on, if not, perhaps a new friend. I am not looking for a casual relationship.

Life is just richer. when you have someone. to share it with.

About Her Ideal Match

You're actually able to love and let down the walls.... not be too jaded and cynical by your past.... open enough to stick... discuss the red flags that might make you skittish.

I dont think I'm that picky. I dislike being bored, but am fairly easy-going, and as long as your life/style and mine could agree, and there was an attraction, I'd consider hope within reach. :)

You have the time, interest, energy and capacity to build a relationship, and you have reasonable moral fibre, and have dealt with, or are conscious of, your shit. - no players, control freaks, or I'm okay you're not okay types please.

You are ok looking, on the light vs heavy side physically. Maybe have a tat or two.

You've learnt from what's brought you here, and want to keep on learning but you don't take it all too seriously.. You know how to treat a woman. Or are willing to learn. You can compromise, are loyal, have a sense of humour. aren't too grumpy, even if you're over 45. And you must. Have a great sex drive. Helpful if you grasp that after the 'honeymoon phase' is over, building solid standing love is something that requires some level of effort....

You can tolerate, or welcome, the unconventional in me without it making you insecure. You are interested in art, food, - is widely read too much of an ask? and have some interest in travel, and the natural world. Oh, and you must not hate small children, dogs, rivers, and mountain walks. Or lying around doing very little on lazy days. Art movie, doccie fans, artists and academics are encouraged to apply within.

Coffee, perhaps a new friend, preferably someone to share the rest of my life with...

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More About Her

More Physical Characteristics
Hair Style:
Short; It has its moods
Body Art:
Pierced ears; A tattoo or two
Personality
Sense of Humour:
Dry
Intelligence:
Rocket Scientist
Party Behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality Traits:
Cautious; Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Mild; Naive; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outrageous; Outspoken; Realistic; Shy; Silly; Stable
Valued Qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance
Favourite Colour:
Yellow
Leisure & Entertainment
Date Activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach
Music Preferences:
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Dance / Disco; Folk; Jazz; Latin; New Age; Reggae; Rock; World
Reading:
I love it
Books:
Best-sellers; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; Horror; Mystery; Sci-Fi
TV Habits:
I don't have a TV
TV Shows:
Documentaries; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi
Movie Frequency:
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online.
Movie Preferences:
Action; Adult; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns
Interests:
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Painting; Photography; Pottery; Reading; Sculpting; Singing; Writing books; Writing poetry; Yoga
Sport Involvement:
Watching from the sidelines
Sports:
Backgammon; Camping; Dancesport; Hang- / Paragliding; Hiking; Horse Riding; Ice Skating; Rock climbing; Sailing; Scuba diving; Snorkeling; Surfing; Swimming; Walking; Water skiing; White water rafting
Food
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Food:
Chinese; French; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a month
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at Work:
I work a standard 40 hour week
Time Online:
Once or twice a week
Take Drugs:
Not any more
Family Size:
I'm an only child
Family Closeness:
We're average
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm unlikely to move
Likes & Dislikes
Animals:
I like animals
Pets (Have):
Cat(s); Dog(s); Rodent(s)
Pets (Like):
Horse(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s)
Turn-offs:
Long hair; Sarcasm
The Deep Stuff
Work Aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Religious Attendance:
Never
Dream Home:
Beach house
Politics:
Very Liberal
Retirement Plans:
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World
Feelings about using Thunderbolt City South Africa:
Curious; Jaded
Honesty:
Extremely